Yes, it can be challenging for many people to get used to how their real voice sounds when they start recording music. When we speak or sing, we hear our own voice through a combination of sound waves traveling through the air and vibrations conducted through our bones to our ears. This gives us a perception of our voice that is slightly different from what others hear when they listen to us.
When you listen to a recording of your voice, you are hearing it without the bone conduction component, which can make it sound unfamiliar and sometimes different from what you expected. It can be a bit surprising or even disorienting to hear your voice from an external perspective.
Additionally, recording equipment and environments can have their own nuances and characteristics that may alter the sound of your voice further. The quality of the microphone, the acoustics of the room, and the mixing and processing applied to the recording can all influence how your voice is captured and reproduced.
Getting used to the sound of your recorded voice takes time and practice. It can help to listen to your recordings repeatedly, both with headphones and through different types of speakers, to gain a more accurate understanding of how your voice sounds to others. With experience and feedback, you can develop a better sense of your recorded voice and adjust your singing technique or performance accordingly. Vocal coaches and producers can also provide valuable guidance and help you develop your sound and style.